{"id":711,"date":"2025-12-01T17:18:15","date_gmt":"2025-12-01T16:18:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/?page_id=711"},"modified":"2026-07-04T22:00:19","modified_gmt":"2026-07-04T20:00:19","slug":"linda-og-thomas-vil-gifte-seg","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/?page_id=711","title":{"rendered":"* Linda og Thomas vil gifte seg"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Her m\u00f8ter du Linda og Thomas<br \/>\nsom \u00f8nsker \u00e5 gifte seg.<br \/>\nBeslutnings-st\u00f8tte handler om<br \/>\n\u00e5 f\u00e5 hjelp til \u00e5 leve livet slik du vil.<br \/>\nDette er bare et <strong>eksempel<\/strong>.<br \/>\nEr det noe <strong>du<\/strong> trenger<br \/>\nbeslutnings-st\u00f8tte til?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Trykk p\u00e5 bildet for tegne-serien:<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1075\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1075\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/?page_id=1077\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1075\" src=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-scaled.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"178\" srcset=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-scaled.png 2560w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-300x107.png 300w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-1024x364.png 1024w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-768x273.png 768w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-1536x546.png 1536w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Stripe-plassholder-2048x728.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1075\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Plassholder for veien til tegneserien (ikke lagt ut enn\u00e5)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<style>#sp-ea-1833 .spcollapsing { height: 0; overflow: hidden; transition-property: height;transition-duration: 300ms;}#sp-ea-1833.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {margin-bottom: 3px; border: 6px solid #e6e6e6; }#sp-ea-1833.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a {color: #e46e3b;}#sp-ea-1833.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.sp-collapse>.ea-body {background: #fff; color: #444;}#sp-ea-1833.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {background: #e6e6e6;}#sp-ea-1833.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a .ea-expand-icon { float: left; color: #444;font-size: 16px;}<\/style><div id=\"sp_easy_accordion-1776241344\"><div id=\"sp-ea-1833\" class=\"sp-ea-one sp-easy-accordion\" data-ea-active=\"ea-click\" data-ea-mode=\"vertical\" data-preloader=\"\" data-scroll-active-item=\"\" data-offset-to-scroll=\"0\"><div class=\"ea-card sp-ea-single\"><h2 class=\"ea-header\"><a class=\"collapsed\" id=\"ea-header-18330\" role=\"button\" data-sptoggle=\"spcollapse\" data-sptarget=\"#collapse18330\" aria-controls=\"collapse18330\" href=\"#\" aria-expanded=\"false\" tabindex=\"0\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"presentation\" class=\"ea-expand-icon eap-icon-ea-expand-plus\"><\/i> Historien<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"sp-collapse spcollapse spcollapse\" id=\"collapse18330\" data-parent=\"#sp-ea-1833\" role=\"region\" aria-labelledby=\"ea-header-18330\"> <div class=\"ea-body\"><p>Linda og Thomas bor<br \/>i hver sitt bo-fellesskap.<br \/>De har v\u00e6rt kj\u00e6rester i 2 \u00e5r.<br \/>De sier til Iben:<br \/>\u201cVi vil gifte oss.<br \/>Vi vil ha ringer og bryllups-kake.\u201d<\/p><p>Noen ansatte og foreldre er usikre p\u00e5<br \/>om det er s\u00e5 lurt.<br \/>De er redde for at Linda og Thomas<br \/>ikke forst\u00e5r hva det betyr \u00e5 v\u00e6re gift.<\/p><h2>\u00c5 pr\u00f8ve-bo sammen<\/h2><p>Iben sp\u00f8r:<br \/>\u201cVil dere pr\u00f8ve \u00e5 bo sammen en stund<br \/>f\u00f8r dere bestemmer dere?\u201d<\/p><p>Linda flytter inn til Thomas<br \/>som har den st\u00f8rste leiligheten.<br \/>De f\u00e5r st\u00f8tte til \u00e5 snakke om:<\/p><ul><li>penger og \u00f8konomi<\/li><li>\u00e5 dele ansvar og oppgaver<\/li><li>sex og samliv<\/li><\/ul><p>Linda sier etter noen uker:<br \/>\u201cDet er fint \u00e5 bo sammen.<br \/>Vi vil gifte oss.\u201d<br \/>Thomas er litt usikker.<br \/>Han synes Linda bestemmer hele tiden<br \/>og bruker mye penger.<\/p><p>Foreldrene ser at Linda og Thomas<br \/>har glede av hverandre.<br \/>De ser ogs\u00e5 at Linda og Thomas<br \/>strever med bruk av penger og<br \/>\u00e5 holde avtaler.<\/p><h2>Andre hjelpere blir med<\/h2><p>Iben og foreldrene hjelper Linda og Thomas.<br \/>De f\u00e5r hjelp til \u00e5 ta kontakt<br \/>med familie-vern-kontoret i kommunen.<br \/>Der kan de f\u00e5 st\u00f8tte til avgj\u00f8re om de vil<br \/>gifte seg n\u00e5 eller bare bo sammen.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style>#sp-ea-1016 .spcollapsing { height: 0; overflow: hidden; transition-property: height;transition-duration: 300ms;}#sp-ea-1016.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {margin-bottom: 3px; border: 6px solid #e6e6e6; }#sp-ea-1016.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a {color: #e46e3b;}#sp-ea-1016.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.sp-collapse>.ea-body {background: #fff; color: #444;}#sp-ea-1016.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {background: #e6e6e6;}#sp-ea-1016.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a .ea-expand-icon { float: left; color: #444;font-size: 16px;}<\/style><div id=\"sp_easy_accordion-1767889342\"><div id=\"sp-ea-1016\" class=\"sp-ea-one sp-easy-accordion\" data-ea-active=\"ea-click\" data-ea-mode=\"vertical\" data-preloader=\"\" data-scroll-active-item=\"\" data-offset-to-scroll=\"0\"><div class=\"ea-card sp-ea-single\"><h2 class=\"ea-header\"><a class=\"collapsed\" id=\"ea-header-10160\" role=\"button\" data-sptoggle=\"spcollapse\" data-sptarget=\"#collapse10160\" aria-controls=\"collapse10160\" href=\"#\" aria-expanded=\"false\" tabindex=\"0\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"presentation\" class=\"ea-expand-icon eap-icon-ea-expand-plus\"><\/i> Slik fikk Linda og Thomas beslutnings-st\u00f8tte<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"sp-collapse spcollapse spcollapse\" id=\"collapse10160\" data-parent=\"#sp-ea-1016\" role=\"region\" aria-labelledby=\"ea-header-10160\"> <div class=\"ea-body\"><p>Linda og Thomas f\u00e5r hjelp av<br \/>Iben og foreldrene sine<br \/>som kjenner dem godt.<br \/>Iben lyttet til Linda og Thomas<br \/>og hjalp dem med \u00e5 pr\u00f8ve<br \/>\u00e5 bo sammen en stund.<\/p><p>Iben snakket med dem om:<\/p><ul><li>penger<\/li><li>\u00e5 dele ansvar og oppgaver<\/li><li>sex og samliv<\/li><\/ul><p>Iben og foreldrene skj\u00f8nner<br \/>at Thomas ikke synes det er s\u00e5 lett<br \/>\u00e5 bo sammen.<\/p><p>Iben og foreldrene hjalp dem<br \/>\u00e5 kontakte familie-vern-kontoret.<\/p><p>Der kan Linda og Thomas f\u00e5 hjelp til<br \/>\u00e5 snakke sammen om<br \/>det de synes er vanskelig.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style>#sp-ea-1836 .spcollapsing { height: 0; overflow: hidden; transition-property: height;transition-duration: 300ms;}#sp-ea-1836.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {margin-bottom: 3px; border: 6px solid #e6e6e6; }#sp-ea-1836.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a {color: #e46e3b;}#sp-ea-1836.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.sp-collapse>.ea-body {background: #fff; color: #444;}#sp-ea-1836.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {background: #e6e6e6;}#sp-ea-1836.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a .ea-expand-icon { float: left; color: #444;font-size: 16px;}<\/style><div id=\"sp_easy_accordion-1776241989\"><div id=\"sp-ea-1836\" class=\"sp-ea-one sp-easy-accordion\" data-ea-active=\"ea-click\" data-ea-mode=\"vertical\" data-preloader=\"\" data-scroll-active-item=\"\" data-offset-to-scroll=\"0\"><div class=\"ea-card sp-ea-single\"><h2 class=\"ea-header\"><a class=\"collapsed\" id=\"ea-header-18360\" role=\"button\" data-sptoggle=\"spcollapse\" data-sptarget=\"#collapse18360\" aria-controls=\"collapse18360\" href=\"#\" aria-expanded=\"false\" tabindex=\"0\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"presentation\" class=\"ea-expand-icon eap-icon-ea-expand-plus\"><\/i> Tenke-sp\u00f8rsm\u00e5l om livet ditt<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"sp-collapse spcollapse spcollapse\" id=\"collapse18360\" data-parent=\"#sp-ea-1836\" role=\"region\" aria-labelledby=\"ea-header-18360\"> <div class=\"ea-body\"><ol><li>Hva \u00f8nsker du i livet ditt?<\/li><li>Hva er viktig for deg<br \/>n\u00e5r du tar store valg?<\/li><li>Hvem kan st\u00f8tte deg<br \/>n\u00e5r du skal bestemme noe viktig?<\/li><\/ol><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<style>#sp-ea-1018 .spcollapsing { height: 0; overflow: hidden; transition-property: height;transition-duration: 300ms;}#sp-ea-1018.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {margin-bottom: 10px; border: 6px solid #e6e6e6; }#sp-ea-1018.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a {color: #e46e3b;}#sp-ea-1018.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.sp-collapse>.ea-body {background: #fff; color: #444;}#sp-ea-1018.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single {background: #e6e6e6;}#sp-ea-1018.sp-easy-accordion>.sp-ea-single>.ea-header a .ea-expand-icon { float: left; color: #444;font-size: 16px;}<\/style><div id=\"sp_easy_accordion-1767890893\"><div id=\"sp-ea-1018\" class=\"sp-ea-one sp-easy-accordion\" data-ea-active=\"ea-click\" data-ea-mode=\"vertical\" data-preloader=\"\" data-scroll-active-item=\"\" data-offset-to-scroll=\"0\"><div class=\"ea-card sp-ea-single\"><h2 class=\"ea-header\"><a class=\"collapsed\" id=\"ea-header-10180\" role=\"button\" data-sptoggle=\"spcollapse\" data-sptarget=\"#collapse10180\" aria-controls=\"collapse10180\" href=\"#\" aria-expanded=\"false\" tabindex=\"0\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" role=\"presentation\" class=\"ea-expand-icon eap-icon-ea-expand-plus\"><\/i> Vanskelige ord enkelt forklart<\/a><\/h2><div class=\"sp-collapse spcollapse spcollapse\" id=\"collapse10180\" data-parent=\"#sp-ea-1018\" role=\"region\" aria-labelledby=\"ea-header-10180\"> <div class=\"ea-body\"><p>Innsikt<\/p><p>Preferanse<\/p><p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_736\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-736\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-736\" src=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Lysbilde6-300x208.png\" alt=\"Brudepar med mannens ansikt til, kvinnens rygg til.\" width=\"500\" height=\"346\" srcset=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Lysbilde6-300x208.png 300w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Lysbilde6-1024x709.png 1024w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Lysbilde6-768x532.png 768w, https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Lysbilde6.png 1040w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-736\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Linda og Thomas vil gifte seg. <br \/>De f\u00e5r hjelp til \u00e5 forst\u00e5 <br \/>hva det betyr \u00e5 v\u00e6re gift. <br \/>(Foto: Freepik.com)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a class=\"maxbutton-10 maxbutton maxbutton-tilbakepil\" title=\"Tilbake 1 side\" href=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/?page_id=1520\"><span class='mb-text'>\ud83e\udc44<\/span><\/a> <a class=\"maxbutton-1 maxbutton maxbutton-forside\" title=\"Til forsiden (startsiden)\" href=\"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/\"><span class='mb-text'>\ud83c\udfe0\ufe0e Forside<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Her m\u00f8ter du Linda og Thomas som \u00f8nsker \u00e5 gifte seg. Beslutnings-st\u00f8tte handler om \u00e5 f\u00e5 hjelp til \u00e5 leve livet slik du vil. Dette er bare et eksempel. Er det noe du trenger beslutnings-st\u00f8tte til? Trykk p\u00e5 bildet for tegne-serien: &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-711","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=711"}],"version-history":[{"count":42,"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/711\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2565,"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/711\/revisions\/2565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selvbestemme.no\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}